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Wednesday, May 2, 2012

The Breath of Love - Mindfulness of Breathing

The Breath of Love
Author
Most Venerable Bhante Vimalaramsi Mahàthera



Mindfulness of Breathing

15]  “Monks,  when  mindfulness  of  breathing  is  developed
and  cultivated,  it  is  of  great  fruit  and  great  benefit.  When
Mindfulness  of  Breathing  is  developed  and  cultivated,  it
fulfills  the  “Four  Foundations  of  Mindfulness”.  When  the
“Four  Foundations  of  Mindfulness”  are  developed  and
cultivated, they fulfill the “Seven Awakening Factors”. When
the “Seven Awakening Factors” are developed and cultivated,
they fulfill true knowledge and deliverance.
 Please observe that the “Four Foundations of Mindfulness” are
in this sutta and they are fulfilled through the practice of Jhàna
and “Tranquil Wisdom Insight Meditation” (TWIM) which lead
to wise meditative states of mind.
This  is  decidedly  different  from  the  current  theory  that  you
can’t  observe  the  “Four  Foundations  of  Mindfulness”  while


experiencing Jhànas [meditative stages of understanding].
The  Buddha  only  taught  one  kind  of  meditation  and  that  is
serenity/insight  or  tranquility/insight  meditation.  That  is
Samatha/Vipassanà meditation or you can say he taught Samàdhi
which  literally  means  “Tranquil  Wisdom  Insight  Meditation”
(TWIM).
16]  And  how,  monks,  is  mindfulness  of  breathing  developed
and cultivated, so that it is of great fruit and great benefit?
17] “Here a monk, gone to the forest or to the root of a tree or
an empty hut, sits down; having folded his legs crosswise, set
his  body  erect,  and  established  mindfulness  in  front  of  him,
ever mindful he breathes in, mindful he breathes out.
The phrase “gone to the forest or to the root of a tree or an empty
hut” means that you go to a reasonably quiet place where there
will be few distractions while learning the meditation. A suitable
location would be a place that is away from road noises, loud and
persistent music or sounds of people, as well as animals.
The  thing  that  happens  with  many  absorption  concentration
practitioners is that even the smallest sound turns into a “thorn
in  their  side”.  This  occurs  because  concentration  is  out  of
balance with your mindfulness. Many students complain about
a fan being on and how it makes noise, or when someone opens
and shuts a door. The absorption practitioner will jump because
the  noise  kind  of  shocks  them.  Again,  this  occurs  because  the
meditators  mindfulness  is  weak  and  their  concentration  is  out
of balance. This is one of the disadvantages of doing absorption
concentration.
During the time of the Buddha, most people sat on floor. Hence,


the  phrase  “sits  down;  having  folded  his  legs  crosswise,  sets
his  body  erect”.  But  today,  sitting  on  the  floor  can  be  very
painful  and  a  trying  experience  because  people  mostly  sit  on
chairs, stools, or couches. If you want to sit on the floor, it may
help if you sit on a cushion high enough so there is no pain in
your back or knees.
In actual fact, it is far more important to observe what is happening
in mind than it is to sit with uncomfortable or painful sensations.
Remember  that  there  is  no  magic  in  sitting  on  the  floor.  The
magic comes from a clear, calm mind that has fun watching how
mind’s attention moves from one thing to another and learning
to 6R any distraction and gently be at ease, as much as possible.
Thus, if sitting on the floor is a very painful experience, then, it
is alright to sit on a stool or a chair.
However, if you do sit on a chair, there is an extremely important
factor to consider. You need to sit without leaning hard against
the  back  of  the  chair.  Leaning  is  good  for  sleeping  but  not  for
meditation!  “Sets  his  body  erect”  means  you  sit  with  a  nicely
straight  back  which  is  not  rigid  and  uncomfortable.  A  nicely
straight back has all of the vertebrae stacked one upon another.
This  is  to  ensure  that  energy  can  flow  up  and  down  the  back
without any blockages. Leaning into a chair can stop the energy
flow and can cause sleepiness to arise. Thus, please do not lean
against  anything  when  sitting.  Very  often,  when  you  first  start
out,  your  back  is  not  used  to  being  straight  and  some  of  the
muscles  can  rebel  and  complain.  However,  with  patience  and
perseverance,  these  unused  muscles  will  gradually  adjust  and
they will strengthen.
There is another important aspect to sitting meditation. You must
not move! You must sit without moving the body for any reason.
Please do not wiggle the toes or fingers or move the hands to rub


or scratch or change the posture in any way until after the sitting
is over. Any movement breaks the continuity of the practice and
this can cause you to have to start all over again.
Some meditation teachers tell their students that it is quite alright
to  move  as  long  as  they  are  “mindful”.  But  if  the  students  are
truly mindful, they would be able to watch mind and its dislike
of the sensations and then, let go of the sensation and relax mind
around them. Thus, there would be no reason to move!
Mindfulness also means to lovingly-accept what is happening in
the present moment, without trying to control, resist or change
it.  To  be  truly  mindful  means  to  open  up  and  allow  whatever
presents itself in the present moment. While sitting, if you move,
this  means  that  you  are  not  being  mindful  at  that  time.  When
you “give in” to the desire to move, you are identifying with that
desire and there is no mindfulness at that time .
Thus, when you are ready and begin to meditate, you must remain
still and keep relaxing mind whenever there is a distraction. To sit
as still as a Buddha image is the best! Actually the only allowable
movement  during  meditation  is  to  straighten  the  back  when  it
starts to curve or slump, as long as it is not done too often.
The phrase “establishing mindfulness in front of him” means
that you put aside all other worldly affairs and involvement with
sensual pleasures. Then you softly close your eyes and whenever
there is a distracting sound, smell, taste, sensation, or thought,
you  are  aware  of  that  and  simply  let  it  go.  You  then  relax  the
tightness in your head, smile and redirect mind’s attention back
to the object of meditation and relax.
“Ever mindful he breathes in, mindful he breathes out.”


This tells us the way to practice mindfulness of breathing. Being
aware of the breath means to know when you are experiencing
the  in-breath,  then  relaxing,  and  to  know  when  you  are
experiencing the out-breath and relaxing. You use the breath as a
reminder to relax on both the in and out-breath. It simply means
to open up your awareness and to be attentive to the breath as
much as possible and at the same time, relax the tightness in the
head (this will be explained more thoroughly in a little while).

Meditation Instructions
18] “Breathing in long, he understands: ‘I breathe in long’; or
breathing out long, he understands: ‘I breathe out long.’
Breathing in short, he understands: ‘I breathe in short’; or
breathing out short he understands ‘I breathe out short’.
The  words  “he  understands”  is  emphasized  to  show  that  you
do not focus with strong attention on the breath to the exclusion
of  everything  else.  You  merely  ‘understand’  what  the  breath
is  doing  in  the  present  moment.  That’s  all  there  is  to  this!  You
simply  know  when  you  breathe  in  long  or  short!  There  is  no
controlling  of  the  breath  at  any  time.  Instead,  there  is  only
understanding  of  what  you  are  doing  in  the  present  moment.
If you try to “over-focus” or “concentrate” on the breath to the
exclusion of anything else, you will develop a headache due to
this “wrong concentration”.
Whenever you hold tightly onto the meditation object and try to
force mind to “concentrate” or push away distractions, the head
will develop a very tight and painful tension. This tightness or
tension in the head also occurs when the meditator attempts to
control  the  sitting  by  throwing  down  any  distracting  thoughts
and feelings and quickly rushing back to the meditation object.
This  happens  with  ‘momentary  concentration’  as  well  as  any


other kind of ‘absorption concentration’ technique. This doesn’t
happen when you relax on the in-breath and on the out-breath.
Many meditation teachers tell their students to put their attention
right in the middle of the sensation and see its true nature. This
will cause a few different things to occur.
Firstly,  you  will  develop  a  stronger  pain  and  this  becomes
a  distraction  instead  of  an  investigation.  It  is  because  these
meditation teachers tell their students to stay with that pain until
it  goes  away.  Unfortunately,  this  can  take  an  unbelievably  long
time.  In  addition,  you  naturally  need  to  tighten  and  toughen
mind in order to observe the sensation.
Actually,  this  tightening  and  toughening  of  mind  is  not  being
mindful. You begin to develop a mind that hardens itself when
pain arises. It is only natural for this to happen as it takes a lot
of courage and fortitude to watch pain in this way. At that time,
a type of aversion is naturally developed and this hardening of
mind  is  not  being  noticed  as  anicca,  dukkha,  anattà  or  the  links
of Dependent Origination and you are not noticing the craving
which is this tightening of mind and body.
Consequently, even when you are not meditating, this suppression
can cause personality hardening, and that causes true problems
to arise. Without the relax step, mind has a tendency to become
critical and judgmental and the personality development of the
meditator becomes hard.
Many  people  say  they  need  to  do  a  Loving-kindness  retreat
after  doing  other  types  of  meditation  because  they  discovered
that  they  do  and  say  things  in  daily  life  which  are  not  so  nice
to  other  people.  When  this  happens,  there  appears  a  question,
“Is this really a type of meditation technique which leads to my


happiness and to the happiness of others?” If the answer is yes,
then  why  do  I  need  to  practice  another  form  of  meditation  to
balance my thinking?”
Eventually you are able to suppress this aversion by practicing
‘concentration’, which is considered to be the “correct method”
by  most  meditation  teachers.  But  the  method  taught  by  the
Buddha  was  never  to  suppress  anything.  His  method  was  to
keep mind open and relaxed and to allow everything that arises
in the present moment.
Thus, whenever a painful sensation arises in the body, you first
recognize  that  mind’s  attention  has  gone  to  the  sensation  and
you  begin  to  think  about  that  feeling.  You  then  let  go  of  any
thoughts about that sensation, open mind and let go of the tight
mental fist that is wrapped around the sensation, or you can let
the sensation be there by itself without any mental resistance or
aversion to it. This is done by telling yourself, “Never mind, it is
alright for this pain to be there.”
Next,  relax  the  tightness  in  the  head  ...  feel  mind  expand  and
become calm ... then smile and re-direct mind’s attention back to
the object of meditation i.e. the breath and relaxing on both the
in and out-breath.
If  you  get  caught  by  thinking  about  the  sensation  or  pain,  the
sensation will get bigger and become more intense. Eventually,
you can’t stand it anymore and you feel like you have to move.
This  thinking  or  internal  verbalizing  about  the  sensation  and
wishing it would go away, is the ‘ego identification’ and the very
beginning of craving and clinging. This getting involved with, ...
trying to control, ... fighting with the sensation, ... resisting the
sensation  etc.,  is  only  fighting  with  the  Dhamma,  which  is  the
Truth of the present moment.


Whenever  you  fight  and  try  to  control  or  harden  mind  to  the
“Dhamma  of  the  present  moment”,  you  cause  yourself  undue
suffering and pain. Another way of fighting with the Dhamma
is by taking the sensation personally and trying to control feeling
with  your  thoughts.  This  worsens  the  pain  and,  as  a  result,  it
hurts  even  more.  Thus,  you  must  learn  to  open  and  lovingly-
accept the present moment without that ‘ego-identification’ and
the thinking or internal verbalization about it, or taking it as “I
am that”.
By  letting  go  and  relaxing,  then  smiling,  this  is  how  you  gain
calmness  and  collectedness  of  mind  as  well  as  equanimity,  full
awareness, and mindfulness. The Buddha taught us three kinds of
actions while meditating or during our daily activities. They are,
“Love Where We Are At… 
Love What We Are Doing in the Present Moment… 
and Love Who We Are With”.
These simple explanations allow you to be completely accepting
of the present moment. “To Love Where We Are At” means to
accept the fact that when you are sitting in meditation, things are
not always like you want them to be.
“To Love What We Are Doing” means to open up mind and allow
whatever arises in the present moment to present itself without
our getting attached to it (craving) or criticizing ourselves for not
being as good as we think we should be.
A  good  acronym  for  this  is  “DROPSS”  which  means  “Don’t
Resist Or Push. Soften and Smile”. Whatever arises, do not resist
or push. Just soften into it and smile, open mind and accept it. In
other words “Love What We Are Doing”.
“To Love Who We Are With”, means to love yourself enough so


that you see and let go of all kinds of attachments which cause
pain to arise in your body and mind.
The  recognition  that  you  cause  your  own  suffering  is  a  major
realization. When you truly love yourself, you will see the pain and
sorrow and lovingly let it go, then relax and smile. This is done by
letting go of the thinking about. Thus, you will eventually let go of
the attachment (craving) and the ego identification with it.
“He  trains  thus:  ‘I  shall  breathe  in  experiencing  the  whole
body’;
he  trains  thus  ‘I  shall  breathe  out  experiencing  the  whole
body’’;
This part of the sutta means that you know when the breath is
starting and stopping on the in-breath, then relax. You don’t have
to  over-focus  mind  or  ‘concentrate’  on  the  breath,  or  take  this
breathing  as  the  object  of  extreme  ‘absorption  concentration’.
You simply know what the breath is doing in the present moment
and  relax  on  both  the  in  and  out-breath.  Your  mindfulness  is
sharp enough to know what the breath and relaxing is doing at
all times, without controlling the breath in any way.
Just let the breath and relaxing become a natural process!
“He  trains  thus:  ‘I  shall  breathe  in  tranquilizing  the  bodily
formation’;
he  trains  thus:  ‘I  shall  breathe  out  tranquilizing  the  bodily
formation’.”
This simple statement is the most important part of the meditation
instructions. It instructs you to notice the tightness which arises
in  the  head  with  every  arising  of  a  consciousness  and  to  relax
that tightness while on the in-breath and out-breath. Then you


feel  your  mind  open  up,  expand,  relax,  become  tranquil.  and
then you smile.
This process occurs because there is a membrane that is wrapped
around the brain called the “meninges”. This membrane tightens
every time a thought, feeling, or sensation arises. Every time you
see  that  mind  is  distracted  away  from  the  breath  and  relaxing,
you  simply  let  go  of  the  distraction  by  not  keeping  mind’s
attention on it, then relax the tightness in the head or brain, feel
mind become open and expanded. Feel it become relaxed, calm
and clear.
Next,  you  softly  smile  and  re-direct  mind’s  attention  back  to
the  breath.  On  the  in-breath  relax,  feel  it  expand  and  become
calm.  On  the  out-breath  relax,  feel  the  meninges  expand,  feel
mind become alert, and pure. In this way the tension in the head
(meninges, brain) and mind gently goes away.
For example, when a thought arises, just let the thought go. Don’t
continue thinking, even if you are in mid-sentence. Just softly let
go  of  the  thought.  If  the  distraction  is  a  sensation,  firstly  open
mind  and  let  go  of  the  aversion  to  the  sensation  and  relax  the
tightness caused by that distraction. Then feel open and expand
before  smiling  and  then  re-direct  mind’s  attention  back  to  the
breath and relaxing. This opening up, relaxing and letting go of
the tightness in the head is actually letting go of the subtle ‘ego
identification’ (craving) which attaches itself to everything as it
arises.
Thus, in this way, when you let go of this tension, you are actually
letting  go  of  all  craving  and  ignorance  which  causes  rebirth.
This is the actual experience of the “Third Noble Truth” or the
cessation of suffering.


Many times a teacher of ‘absorption concentration’ will tell their
students  that  this  last  part  of  the  instructions  means  that  you
become  tranquil  when  you  focus  mind’s  attention  just  on  the
breath. But, this is not the way this is to be read. The Pàli presents
us  with  the  word  “pas-sambaya”.  This  word  is  interesting
because it can be a verb, an adverb, a noun, or an adjective. Words
which preceed it or follow it change the meaning of this word.
The  words  before  this  state  “He  trains  thus:”.  This  means  that
this Pàli word is an “action verb”. This makes sense because you
are relaxing (letting go of subtle craving) in the body and mind
on both the in and out-breaths.
When  you  follow  this  sutta’s  instructions,  this  small  step
of  relaxing  in  the  instructions  actually  says  that  when  you
meditate, you are not strongly focusing just on the breath itself
to the exclusion of everything else. You are using the breath to
remind  yourself  to  relax  on  both  the  in  and  out-  breaths.  This
changes the entire meditation moving it away from “absorption
concentration”  and  instead,  developing  the  “Tranquil  Wisdom
Insight Meditation” (TWIM)!
When  the  meditation  instructions  here  are  followed  closely,
there will be no ‘sign or nimitta’ arising in mind. A nimitta is a
kind of mind-made object, which arises when one is practicing
‘absorption concentration meditation’. In the practice of TWIM,
the  Mind  naturally  becomes  calm  and  your  understanding  of
HOW  mind’s  attention  actually  moves  continues  to  develop.
This  also  means  that  you  will  be  able  to  discern  how  the  links
of Dependent Origination occur and this is where deep insights
and understanding really happen.
You  need  not  “try”  to  force  mind  to  stay  on  the  object  of
meditation through strong concentration which can cause tension
and pain (craving) in the head and body. Eventually you begin to


realize the true nature of all phenomenon as being impermanent
(anicca),  unsatisfactory  (dukkha),  and  not-self  (anattà)  as  well  as
beginning  to  see  for  yourself  how  the  impersonal  process  of
Dependent Origination occurs.
Thus, when you practice “Tranquil Wisdom Insight Meditation”
(TWIM), you are aware of the in-breath and at the same time, the
relaxation of the tension caused by craving in your head because
of  the  tightening  of  the  meninges,  the  membrane  around  the
brain,  and  you  feel  this  tightening  in  your  mind  as  well.  You
are also aware of the out-breath and again, at the same time, the
relaxation of the tension in the head and mind.
Please  use  the  breath  as  your  reminder  to  relax  all  tightness
because  then  you  are  letting  go  of  the  craving,  which  always
manifests as tension and tightness in both mind and body.
This is actually an incredibly easy practice and a simple way to
develop mind. It is alright if you happen to miss one in-breath or
one out-breath at first. You should not put unnecessary pressure
on yourself or criticize yourself. This might cause you to think
how difficult this practice is. It does take some getting used to
before your practice becomes proficient. Thus, if you occasionally
miss the in-breath and relaxing, or, an out-breath and relaxing,
just let it go and catch the next in-breath or out-breath. Simple
and easy, isn’t it?
At  first,  the  breath  may  seem  to  be  very  fast  and  difficult
to  notice.  However,  as  you  continue  with  your  practice,  the
meditation  becomes  easier  and  you  will  not  miss  the  in-breath
and relaxing or the out-breath and relaxing that much. After all,
this is a gradual training. There is no need to put undue pressure
on yourself, so, have fun and smile more. This is the way to gain
the fastest results. Please remember that the Buddha teaches us


to have a happy wholesome uplifted mind all of the time! Simply
relax into the meditation and smile. Smiling is a way to have an
alert uplifted mind!
When  you  practice  “Tranquil  Wisdom  Insight  Meditation”
(TWIM),  the  breath  does  not  become  subtle  and  difficult  to
observe. If this happens, then the meditator is ‘concentrating’ too
much on the breath and not smiling enough. Also, the tightness in
the head is not relaxed enough. If the breath seems to disappear
again,  the  meditator  is  focusing  their  ‘concentration’  and  not
tranquilizing mind enough.
The Jhànas (meditation stages of understanding) will appear by
themselves as mind becomes calm and peaceful. You do not have
to push, force, or ‘concentrate with a fixed mind’. Actually, the
Buddha taught this most natural form of meditation to work for
every type of personality or individual.
19] “He trains thus: ‘I shall breathe in experiencing joy’;
He trains thus: ‘I shall breathe out experiencing joy’.”
This refers to the attainment of the first two Jhànas (meditation
stages of understanding). The description of these stages is a set
formula  that  is  repeated  many  times  in  the  suttas.[12]  We  will
now look into the description of these first two Jhànas:
Here, quite secluded from sensual pleasures, ...
When  you  start  your  meditation  session,  you  first  close  your
eyes. This is being secluded from the sensual pleasure of seeing.
Whenever a sound distracts mind, the instructions are to let the
sound be there by itself, without thinking about whether you like
the sound or not. Simply let the sound go. Let go of the mental
fist around the sound. Relax the craving or tightness in the head


and feel mind become calm and at ease. Now smile and redirect
(happy)  mind’s  attention  back  to  the  object  of  meditation,  i.e.,
the breath. Relax the tightness in the head, feel mind open up,
expand, and become tranquil. Smile and on the in-breath, relax
the  tightness  in  the  head  on  the  out-breath,  feel  mind  become
alert, peaceful, and pure because there is no more craving in it.
You stay with the breath and relax the tension in mind until the
next distraction appears by itself.
As  a  meditator  you  do  this  with  smelling,  tasting,  bodily
sensations, and thoughts or any kind of sensual pleasure which
distracts mind’s attention away from the breath and relaxing.
Whenever  there  is  a  distraction  at  one  of  the  sense-doors  you
simply  and  softly  let  it  go,  relax  that  mental  fist  around  the
distraction,  relax  the  tightness  in  the  head,  feel  mind  expand,
and  redirect  mind’s  attention  back  to  the  breath  and  relaxing
again.  It  doesn’t  matter  how  many  times  the  sensual  pleasure
arises. You have to allow it to be there every time it arises. Just
remember to let it go, relax the tightness in the head, feel mind
expand and smile, then come back to the breath and relaxing.
secluded from unwholesome states...
When  mind’s  attention  is  distracted  from  the  breath  and
relaxing, and it begins to think about a feeling that arises, then
there is a tendency for mind to like or dislike that feeling. This
thinking about and trying to control feeling by thinking about
what  arises,  causes  the  feeling  to  get  bigger  and  more  intense.
Thus, more pain arises.

The Breath of Love - 5 Faculties & 5 Powers

The Breath of Love
Author
Most Venerable Bhante Vimalaramsi Mahàthera



The Five Faculties

“Again Udayin, I have proclaimed to my disciples the way to
develop the five spiritual faculties. Here a monk develops the
faculty of faith which leads to peace, leads to awakening.”
The faculty of faith is also called the faculty of confidence. As you
become interested in letting go of the pain of living, your curiosity
becomes stronger. Thus, you begin to look for a meditation teacher.
If you are fortunate enough to learn from a competent guide, you
will  begin  to  see  some  slight  changes  in  the  way  you  perceive
the world. As you begin to see this through direct practice, your
confidence  begins  to  grow.  As  a  result,  enthusiasm  towards  the
practice increases so that you will want to practice more!


“He develops the faculty of energy, which leads to peace, leads
to awakening.”
When  your  confidence  grows,  you  will  naturally  put  more
energy  into  your  practice.  You  begin  to  sit  a  little  longer  and
mind becomes a little clearer. For the beginner it is recommended
to sit not less than 30-45 minutes at a time.
When a sitting is good, please stay with that sitting for as long
as it lasts. A good sitting might last for one hour, one hour-ten
minutes, or longer. It is good to sit progressively for longer periods
of  time  and  not  worry  about  becoming  attached  to  the  sitting.
The  only  way  you  become  attached  is  by  the  thinking  about
the  meditation  instead  of  doing  the  meditation  in  the  correct
manner.  There  is  nothing  wrong  in  sitting  for  long  periods  of
time as long as you do not hurt yourself physically and you have
enough exercise.
Sitting for one or two or three hours is fine only when you are
ready  to  sit  comfortably  for  such  long  periods.  If  you  sit  in  a
way which causes pain to arise every time, then you are causing
yourself  unnecessary  physical  discomfort.  This  is  not  a  wise
thing to do, because the sitting posture should be comfortable. It
is alright if you use a stool or chair, as long as you do not lean too
much into anything. Leaning is good for sleeping and dullness,
but not for meditating! Thus, the more confidence you have, the
more  energy  you  put  into  your  practice.  Your  enthusiasm  will
naturally increase as you continue practicing.
“He develops the faculty of mindfulness which leads to peace,
leads to awakening.”
As your energy improves, your awareness and mindfulness will
naturally  become  stronger.  This  is  a  very  natural  “non-forced”


process.  Let’s  take  a  look  at  the  mind  of  an  ordinary  person,  a
person like you or me. What you find is a grasshopper mind, a
butterfly  mind,  or  one  could  also  say,  a  mad  monkey  mind.  It
is always moving, ever-jumping around. It changes its fantasies
and impulses at every moment.
Mind’s  attention  is  prey  for  all  stimuli  and  its  own  emotional
reaction  to  them.  This  is  actually  a  reaction  that  is  mostly  re-
acting to conditions the way you always act when a certain stimuli
arises. It is a chain of linked associations, hopes, fears, memories,
fantasies, or regrets that are streaming constantly through mind.
These are triggered by memories of the outside world.
Mind’s  attention  is  blindly  moving,  never-stopping,  never-
satisfied in its search for pleasure and satisfaction. It is no wonder
that mind becomes so crazy and filled with un-satisfactoriness
and was described by the early monks as a restless mad monkey
swinging from branch-to-branch in the quest for satisfying fruit
through the endless jungle of conditional events.
Thus,  when  you  first  begin  to  meditate,  mind’s  attention
naturally runs all over the place and it stays away from the object
of  meditation  for  a  long  time.  Sometimes  it  even  takes  two  or
three  minutes  before  you  are  able  to  recognize  that  it  is  being
pulled away  and then,  you gently  let  it  go, relax  the tension in
the head, calm mind, smile and re-direct mind’s attention back
to the breath and relaxing.
When this happens, this is only natural, because mind is used to
running wherever it likes to go. When it does happen, please don’t
criticize  yourself  or  beat  yourself  up  because  mind’s  attention
is so unruly. Instead, release the distraction, relax, smile as you
return back to the object of meditation and continue on.


As your practice develops and you are able to recognize and let
go more quickly, your mindfulness gradually becomes sharper.
Mind  might  only  stay  away  from  the  breath  and  relaxing  for
one  minute  before  recognizing  that  it  is  not  on  the  breath  and
relaxing.  It  then  lets  go,  relaxes,  smiles,  and  comes  back  to  the
breath and relaxes again.
At  this  time  mind’s  attention  begins  to  stay  on  the  breath
and  relaxing  for  longer  periods  of  time,  perhaps,  as  long  as
thirty  seconds,  before  it  goes  off  again.  However,  you  are  now
becoming better at seeing when mind’s attention goes away. Your
mindfulness  becomes  sharper  and  you  are  able  to  recognize
what mind is doing. Thus, when your confidence becomes better,
energy improves, and as a result, the alertness of mind naturally
develops  and  this  is  sharpening  your  mindfulness.  One  of  the
most  important  parts  of  this  meditation  is  to  realize  that  the
‘breath and relaxing’ should be your re-centering point for each
cycle.
“He  develops  the  faculty  of  collectedness  or  stillness,  which
leads to peace, leads to awakening.”
When  your  mindfulness  of  the  present  moment  improves,
mind  will  naturally  stay  on  the  object  of  meditation  for  much
longer  periods  of  time.  Most  people  would  describe  this  as
‘concentration’  but  this  is  not  an  accurate  description  because
this is not that kind of concentration. Mind is not absorbed into or
fixed on just the breath. Instead, it is very still, relaxed, composed
and stays on the breath and relaxing very well. Remember that
the breath is the reminder for the RELAX step and that is very
important.
At this time a strong feeling of joy arises and the body becomes
very  light  and  this  feels  like  floating.  When  joy  fades  away,  a


powerful  feeling  of  tranquility,  equanimity,  and  comfort  arises.
Due to your sharp awareness, you do not become involved with
these  feelings.  But  if  you  begin  to  think  or  internally  verbalize
about how nice this state is, and how much you like it, you will
lose that state and sleepiness very often comes into mind. This
is  because  you  are  caught  by  the  attachment  to  those  feelings
(craving and clinging) and it slips off the object without coming
back to the breath and relaxing.
Mindfulness  fades  away  when  you  start  to  think  or  internally
verbalize  about  things  and  you  become  involved  in  wanting
to  control  these  things  and  thoughts.  This  also  happens  when
you crave for the experience of joy and tranquility to arise. This
desire makes mind try too hard so that it can’t get back to that
experience!.  But  when  you  try  harder  and  put  in  more  energy,
the restlessness becomes bigger. Often times, you will put even
more energy into overcoming this hindrance when what is really
needed is to put in less energy and relax and smile more. Turn
your meditation into a fun game to play with instead of making
the hindrance an enemy to fight with.
These arising combinations of hindrances will stop all spiritual
practice  from  occurring  because  the  desire  for  things  to  be  in
a particular  way  (craving)  makes all  the  spiritual  development
fade away. Therefore, you must be more mindful of the thoughts
about these pleasant abidings.
As  your  confidence  and  smiling  increases,  your  energy  grows
naturally.  This  improves  your  mindfulness  which  enables  the
collectedness and stillness of mind to become stronger and last
longer.
“A  monk  develops  the  faculty  of  wisdom  (or  understanding
of how Dependent Origination occurs), which leads to peace,


leads  to  awakening  .  And  thereby  many  disciples  of  mine
abide  having  reached  the  consummation  and  perfection  of
direct knowledge.”
As your mind becomes more calm and still, you are able to see the
true nature of things. This development of wisdom or intelligence
is  gained  by  personally  seeing  things  arise  and  pass  away  by
themselves. For instance, even while you are sitting in a Jhàna [a
meditation stage of understanding] you see how joy arises. It is
there for a while, then fades away. You then see how tranquility
and  happiness  arise.  You  are  there  for  a  while  and  then,  they
fade away. You are able to see the true nature of impermanence,
even  in  the  beginning  of  your  practice,  by  observing  thoughts
arising and passing away.
You begin to observe feeling and emotions arising and passing
away.  You  will  also  notice  that  these  things  that  arise  and  pass
away  are  un-satisfactory  and  these  feelings  and  emotions
are  a  form  of  suffering,  especially  when  they  don’t  behave
in  the  way  you  want  them  to.  When  you  see  how  truly  un-
satisfactory this process is, you can then clearly see that it is an
“impersonal  process”  (anattà).  No  one  controls  the  appearance
and disappearance of these things.
Even  while  in  Jhàna  [a  meditation  stage  of  understanding]  you
have  no  real  control  over  joy  arising  because  joy  arises  when
the conditions are right for it to come up. At the same time, you
simply cannot force joy to stay because it will fade away when
the conditions are right. Whatever arises, passes away.
This causes more un-satisfactoriness to arise, because joy is such
a nice feeling! In this way, you are able to see the characteristics
of  existence  very  clearly,  i.e.  anicca  (impermanence),  dukkha
(suffering), and the impersonal nature of these things (anattà).


This is how to develop wisdom which gradually leads us to the
seeing of Dependent Origination both arising and ceasing (that
is, seeing and realizing The Four Noble Truths). An interesting
observation  found  in  the  Vinaya  is  that  you  can  see  the  three
characteristics  of  existence  without  ever  seeing  the  links
of  Dependent  Origination,  but  you  can  never  see  the  links  of
Dependent Origination without seeing the three characteristics
of  existence  (i.e.,  impermanence,  suf fering  and  the  impersonal
nature of everything) at the same time. We will discuss this in
more detail at a later time.
The Five Powers
“Again Udayin, I have proclaimed to my disciples the way to
develop the Five Spiritual Powers.
Here a monk develops the Power of Faith, which leads to peace,
leads to awakening.
He develops the Power of Energy, which leads to peace, leads
to awakening.
He develops the Power of Mindfulness, which leads to peace,
leads to awakening.

He develops the Power of Collectedness, which leads to peace,
and leads to awakening.
He develops the Power of Wisdom (which means seeing and
understanding  the  links  of  Dependent  Origination),  which
leads to peace, and leads to awakening.
And thereby many disciples of mine abide having reached the


consummation and perfection of direct knowledge.”
These are the same as the five faculties but, they are called powers
because of their ability to purify mind and make it wholesome
and clean.
We will now continue with the ânàpànasati Sutta.
14] “In this saïgha of monks there are monks who abide devoted
to the development of loving-kindness ... of compassion ... of
joy ... of equanimity ... of the meditation of foulness ... of the
perception  of  impermanence—such  monks  are  there  in  this
saïgha  of  monks.  In  this  saïgha  of  monks  there  are  monks
who  abide  devoted  to  the  development  of  mindfulness  of
breathing.
 Loving-kindness, Compassion, Joy and Equanimity are known
as  the  Four  “Brahmà  Vihàras”  or  the  Four  Boundless  states  of
mind, or the Limitless or Immeasurable states of mind. This is
because  there  are  no  boundaries  or  limitations  on  mind  when
they are practiced.
The meditation of foulness is suitable for those who have a strong
affinity for lust arising in their minds. It is practiced by reflecting
on the elements and the disgusting nature of our body parts. For
example, when you look at a beautiful person and thoughts of lust
arise, you can imagine how desirable that person would be if all
of their body parts were to be turned inside-out! Will your mind
then think, “Oh! what a lovely intestine or liver!” or “Wow! What
beautiful bile, pus and phlegm that person has!” How much lust
is there in mind at that time? Thus, this meditation helps people
with a lustful personality to come more into balance.
The perception of impermanence does not actually refer to sitting


down and thinking about how everything changes. (Remember,
“Tranquil Wisdom Insight Meditation” (TWIM) is about seeing
with a silent and spacious mind). It is referring to the meditation
states of “infinite space” and “infinite consciousness” where mind
sees  just  how  fleeting  these  mental  and  physical  phenomenon
truly  are  and  you  realize  just  how  unsatisfactory  this  is.  Plus,
the biggest insight is when you realize all states of existence are
just a part of an impersonal process. In other words, you see and
understand that there is no controller and that there is no self-
making these things to arise. They arise by themselves. They are
there for a brief moment and they go away without you having
any control over what happens.
We will now proceed to the next section of the sutta which speaks
about “Mindfulness of Breathing”.

The Breath of Love - The Anapanasati Sutta

The Breath of Love
Author
Most Venerable Bhante Vimalaramsi Mahàthera



The Anàpànasati Sutta

Introductory Section
1]  Thus  have  I  heard.  On  one  occasion  the  Blessed  One  was
living at Savatthi in the Eastern Park, in the Palace of Migara’s
Mother, together with many very well-known elder disciples—
the Venerable Sàriputta, the Venerable Mahà Moggallana, the
Venerable  Mahà  Kassapa,  the  Venerable  Mahà  Kaccana,  the
Venerable  Mahà  Kotthita,  the  Venerable  Mahà  Kappina,  the
Venerable  Cunda,  the  Venerable  Anuruddha,  the  Venerable
Revata,  the  Venerable  Ananda,  and  other  very  well  known
elder disciples.
2] Now on that occasion elder monks had been teaching and
instructing new monks; some elder monks had been teaching
and instructing ten new monks, some elder monks had been
teaching  and  instructing  twenty...  thirty...  forty  new  monks.
And the new monks, taught and instructed by the elder monks,
had achieved successive stages of high distinction.
3] On that occasion—the Uposatha day of the fifteenth, on the
full-moon night of the Pavarana ceremony, [9] The Blessed One
was seated in the open surrounded by the ‘samgha of monks’.
Then, surveying the silent ‘samgha of bhikkhus’, he addressed
them thus:
4]  “Monks,  I  am  content  with  this  progress.  My  mind  is
content  with  this  progress.  So,  arouse  still  more  energy  to
attain the unattained, to achieve the unachieved, to realize the
unrealized.  I  shall  wait  here  at  Savatthi  for  the  Komudi  full
moon of the fourth month.”


The monks can still practice their meditation or make new robes
and  prepare  to  go  out  wandering  or  teaching  the  Dhamma  to
other  monks  and  laypersons  during  this  extra  month.  The
Kathina  Ceremony  is  also  held  during  this  month.  This  is  the
time for laymen and laywomen to make extra merit by practicing
their  generosity  by  giving  robes  and  other  requisites  to  the
samgha members.
5] The monks of the countryside heard: “The Blessed One will
wait there at Savatthi for the Komudi full moon of the fourth
month.” And the monks of the countryside left in due course
for Savatthi to see the Blessed One.
6]  And  the  elder  monks  still  more  intensively  taught  and
instructed new monks; some elder monks taught and instructed
ten  new  monks,  some  elder  monks  taught  and  instructed
twenty... thirty... forty new monks. And the new monks, taught
and instructed by the elder monks, achieved successive stages
of high distinction.
7]  On  that  occasion—the  Uposatha  day  of  the  fifteenth,
the  full-moon  night  of  the  Komudi  full  moon  of  the  fourth
month—the Blessed One was seated in the open surrounded
by the ‘samgha of monks’. Then, surveying the silent ‘samgha
of monks’, he addressed them thus:
8] “Monks, this assembly is free from prattle; this assembly is
free from chatter.[10] It consists purely of heartwood.
Such is this ‘samgha of monks’, such is this assembly. Such an
assembly  as  is  worthy  of  gifts,  worthy  of  hospitality,  worthy
of offerings, worthy of reverential salutation, an incomparable
field  of  merit  for  the  world—Such  is  this  assembly.  Such  an
assembly that a small gift given to it becomes great and a great


gift becomes greater—such is this ‘samgha of monks’, such is
this assembly.
Such an assembly as is rare for the world to see—such is this
‘samgha of monks, such is this assembly. Such an assembly as
would be worthy journeying many leagues with a travel-bag
to see—such is this ‘samgha of monks’, such is this assembly.
9] “In this ‘samgha of monks’, there are monks who are Arahats
with taints destroyed, who have lived the holy life, done what
had to be done, laid down the burden, reached the true goal,
destroyed  the  fetters  of  being,  and  are  completely  liberated
through  final  knowledge—such  monks  are  there  in  this
‘samgha of monks’.

This is the stage where all of the fetters are destroyed such that
they will not ever arise anymore.
The ten fetters (samyojana) are:
1.Belief in permanent self or soul (sakkàyaditthi),
2.Doubt in the correct path (vicikicchà),
3.Belief that chanting, or rites and rituals lead one to Nibbàna
(silabbatapàràmàsa),
4.Lust or greed (kàmaràga),
5.Hatred or aversion (patigha),
6.Greed  for  fine-material  existence   (ruparàga),
7.Greed  for immaterial  existence (aruparàga),
8.Conceit or pride (màna),
9.Restlessness or agitation of mind (uddhacca),
10.Ignorance (avijjà).
The final stage of an Arahat is described as follows:  
(Taken from the Majjhima Nikàya sutta number 70, section 12.)


#12]  “They  are  the  ones  who  have  lived  the  Holy  Life,
laid  down  the  burden,  reached  the  true  goal,  destroyed
the  fetters  of  being,  and  are  completely  liberated  through
final  knowledge,  they  have  done  their  work  with  diligence;
they are no longer capable of being negligent”   
Anàpànasati Sutta:
10]  “In  this  ‘samgha  of  monks’  there  are  monks  who,  with
the  destruction  of  the  five  lower  fetters,  are  due  to  reappear
spontaneously  (in  the  pure  abodes)  and  there  attain  final
Nibbàna, without ever returning from that world—such monks
are there in this ‘samgha of monks’.
This stage of sainthood is called Anàgàmi where lust and hate no
longer even arise in one’s mind. The five lower fetters have been
destroyed but there is still work to be done.
11] “In this ‘samgha of monks there are monks who, with the
destruction  of  three  fetters  and  with  the  attenuation  of  lust,
hate  and  delusion,  are  once-returners,  returning  once  to  this
world to make an end of suffering—such monks are there in
this ‘samgha of monks’.
This  stage  of  sainthood  is  called  being  a  Sakadàgàmi  or  once-
returner. They have given up the belief in a permanent self, belief
that one can attain enlightenment by chanting and practicing rites
and rituals, and they have given up doubt in the path. Also, the
person who has attained this stage has tremendously weakened
lust and hatred, together with all of the other fetters.
12] “In this ‘samgha of monks’ there are monks who, with the
destruction of the three fetters, are stream-enterers, no longer
subject  to  perdition,  bound  [for  deliverance],  headed  for


awakening—such monks are there in this ‘samgha of monks’.
The person who has attained this stage of awakening is called a
Sotàpanna or stream-enterer. They have given up the three lower
fetters mentioned above; they are never going to be reborn in a
low existence again. Their lowest rebirth will be as a human being,
and the most lives that they will experience before attaining final
Nibbàna, is seven.
13]  “In  this  ‘samgha  of  monks’  there  are  monks  who  abide
devoted  to  the  development  of  the  four  foundations  of
mindfulness  [11]—such  monks  are  there  in  this  ‘samgha  of
monks’. In this ‘samgha of monks’ there are monks who abide
devoted  to  the  four  right  kinds  of  strivings  (efforts)...  to  the
four  bases  for  spiritual  power...  to  the  five  faculties...  to  the
five  powers...  to  the  seven  enlightenment  factors...  to  the
Noble  Eightfold  Path—such  monks  are  there  in  this  ‘samgha
of monks’
The four right kinds of striving, the four bases for spiritual power,
the five faculties, the five powers, the seven awakening factors and
the Noble Eightfold Path are described in Mahàsakuludayi Sutta,
sutta number 77, section 16 of the Majjhima Nikàya. This shows
us  how  to  develop  wholesome  states.  (This  sutta  describes  the
qualities of Buddha which his disciples repeat to honor, respect,
revere and venerate him and live in dependence on him.)
We  will  now  look  into  the  meanings  of  these  terms.  The  Four
Foundations of Mindfulness, the Seven Awakening Factors and
the Noble Eightfold Path will be discussed later in the sutta.
The Four Right Kinds of Striving
“Again  Udayin,  I  have  proclaimed  to  my  disciples  the  way
to develop the four right kinds of striving. A monk awakens


enthusiasm, for the non-arising of unarisen evil unwholesome
states,  and  he  makes  effort,  arouses  energy,  exerts  his  mind,
and strives.”
Besides  enthusiasm,  the  Pàli  word  “chanda”  also  means  joyful
interest  or  enthusiasm.  A  mind  which  points  towards  a
wholesome object like joy has this quality of joyful interest.
Thus, the first right kind of striving is to cultivate a mind that has
joyful interest and enthusiasm so that mind becomes clear and
free from unwholesome states. Joy grows when mind is smiling
and  happy  during  our  daily  life  as  well  as  during  meditation.
As a result, mind will be uplifted and wholesome at that time.
Nowadays, these four kinds of striving are usually called the four
right efforts. Some meditation teachers request the meditator to
put out strenuous effort to note what is happening in the present
moment. But this sutta clearly shows us that this is not that kind
of mindfulness.
Mindfulness  of  joyful  interest  and  enthusiasm,  i.e.,  having  a
smiling  mind  leads  to  a  mind  which  is  light,  open,  accepting,
and without any tension. This is the proper definition of right
effort  and  according  to  the  sutta,  it  actually  has  nothing  to  do
with noting a phenomena until it goes away.
“He  awakens  enthusiasm  for  the  abandoning  of  arisen  evil
unwholesome  states,  and  he  makes  effort,  arouses  energy,
exerts his mind, and strives.”
The second right kind of right striving teaches one to abandon
heavy  emotional  states  like  anger,  sadness,  jealousy,  anxiety,
stress,  depression,  fear,  etc.,  and  replace  them  with  a  smiling
mind which relaxes away even the subtlest tension. This is the
wholesome state of joyful interest and enthusiasm. By cultivating


such a smiling mind, one overcomes the ego-identification with
these  states  as  being  “Mine”.  A  good  sense  of  humor  about
oneself is a skillful tool to develop when treading the spiritual
path.
“He  awakens  zeal  for  the  arising  of  unarisen  wholesome
states,  and  he  makes  effort,  arouses  energy,  exerts  his  mind,
and strives.”
This  means  seeing  that  mind  brings  up  joyful  interest  and
enthusiasm  when  these  wholesome  states  are  not  in  mind.  In
other words, the cultivation of mindfulness means cultivating joy
and a smiling mind. Even when there is a neutral mind that is
merely thinking this and that, this is the time to practice smiling
in mind and experiencing joyful interest and enthusiasm.
“He awakens enthusiasm for the continuous, non-disappearance,
strengthening,  increase,  and  fulfillment  by  development  of
arisen wholesome states, and he makes effort, arouses energy,
exerts  his  mind,  and  strives.  And  thereby  many  disciples  of
mine abide having reached the consummation and perfection
of direct knowledge.”
The fourth right kind of striving refers to a continuous practice,
not only during the formal practice of meditation but also during
the daily activities.
At  one  time  the  author  was  approached  by  some  questioning
students  asking:  “How  can  one  attain  Nibbàna  by  practicing
smiling and having joyful interest?” They thought that they had
made a very profound statement because they think Nibbàna is
attained by looking at pain and suffering all of the time. These
students are not practicing how to be light and happy as taught
by the Buddha. The author replied to them by asking some cross


questions:  “How  can  you  get  to  Nibbàna  without  smiling  and
having joyful interest in your mind?
Isn’t  joy  one  of  the  awakening  factors?  Didn’t  the  Buddha  say
‘We are the Happy Ones’?
Here you can see the importance of developing a mind that smiles
and has joyful interest. There arises a true change of perspective
in your mind when you have joyful interest and a smile. You are
not so heavy and grumpy when things become difficult. This is
because there is not so much ego-attachment and the meditator
can see a situation clearly.
When mind does not smile and has no joyful interest, everything
becomes  heavy  and  all  mental  states  and  thoughts  become
depressing. Mind becomes overly serious and takes everything
negatively.
For example, let’s say that you are very happy and I come along
and  give  you  a  rose.  You  might  take  that  rose  and  admire  the
color, the shape, and the fragrance. You think, “What a beautiful
flower!  Just  seeing  it  makes  me  even  happier”.  But,  if  you  are
in a depressed or angry mood and I come along and gave you
that  same  rose,  your  mind  would  see  the  thorns  instead.  You
might even think, “Ugh! This rose is so ugly. I hate it!” At that
time, all that is seen is the thorns. But, in actual fact, the rose is
the same. The only difference is your mood. Joyful interest and
smiling  helps  to  make  the  world  around  you  a  better  place  to
live. This, however, is not to say that we won’t go through trials
and tribulations. We will! However, the perspective of having joy
in mind changes a big problem into a small one.


The Four Bases for Spiritual Power
“Again,  Udayin,  I  have  proclaimed  to  my  disciples  the  way
to  develop  the  four  bases  for  spiritual  power.  Here  a  monk
develops the basis for spiritual power consisting in composure
of mind, due to joy and determined striving.”
The first spiritual power refers to joy. It is as explained above.
“He  develops  the  basis  for  spiritual  power  consisting  of
collectedness  (here  meaning  stillness)  due  to  energy  and
determined striving.”
This is the second spiritual power energy. You cannot slack or
become lazy when you are on the Buddha’s Path. It takes a lot of
energy to stay on the path especially when you realize that this
is a lifetime practice! This is talking about the energy that it takes
to recognize when your mind is tight and tense, followed by the
energy  to  let  go  of  the  thinking  and  relax  the  tightness  in  the
head and mind, before coming back to the breath.
“He  develops  the  basis  for  spiritual  power  consisting  of
collectedness (here meaning serenity) due to purity of [i.e. no
craving] mind and determined striving.”
The third spiritual power refers to the purity of mind which is
developed  when  one  stays  on  the  object  of  meditation  as  long
as possible. Whenever a hindrance arises and knocks you out of
the  meditation,  you  simply  allow  the  hindrance  to  be,  without
getting involved with the thinking mind. You proceed to run the
6R’s  cycle.  That  is  RECOGNIZING  you  are  not  on  your  object
of  meditation,  RELEASING  your  distraction  by  not  keeping
your  attention  on  it,  RELAXING  the  tension  and  tightness  in
your  head  caused  by  that  distraction,  SMILING  to  lighten  up


mind and sharpen awareness, and RETURNING to your object
of meditation. Then you REPEAT this cycle as needed and you
develop this cycle into one flowing motion that mind learns to
do.

It  doesn’t  matter  how  many  times  mind  goes  back  to  that
distraction or hindrance. If mind’s attention is pulled away, you
then run this cycle.
You simply repeat the 6R’s, allowing, relaxing, and coming back to
the breath and relaxing again. This is the method to purify mind
of all defilements and hindrances. Remember, meditation is not
about thinking. It’s about expanding your understanding mind
and awareness into the present moment and then going beyond
that to the true expression of loving acceptance. Meditation is the
silence  when  thoughts—with  all  their  images  and  words  have
entirely stopped pulling mind’s attention away. But meditation
is  not  now,  nor,  has  it  ever  meant  to  be  ‘concentration’  in  the
conventional sense.
‘Concentration’,  the  one-pointed  or  absorption  type,  contracts
mind  and  is  a  form  of  exclusion,  a  type  of  cutting  off,  a
suppression  of  hindrances,  a  resistance.  It  is  also  a  kind  of
conflict. A meditative mind can be very still and composed, and
yet,  not  have  exclusion  or  suppression,  or  resistance  in  it.  An
absorbed  concentrated  mind  cannot  meditate  according  to  the
Buddhist practice.
“He  develops  the  basis  for  spiritual  power  consisting  in
collectedness (here meaning composure of mind, or serenity)
due to investigation and determined striving.”
The habit of investigation of one’s experience is a very important
aspect  of  your  spiritual  growth.  When  you  are  caught  by  a


hindrance, a pain, or any distraction, you must be able to see how
mind’s attention reacts to that particular situation. For example,
sleepiness arises while you are meditating. The way to overcome
sleepiness  is  by  staying  more  attentive,  with  joyful  interest,  on
the object of meditation. You must try to see directly how your
mind’s attention slips back to the sleepiness.
In  other  words,  you  must  put  more  effort  and  energy  into  the
practice  so  that  you  see  how  things  happen.  When  you  notice
how mind first starts to be caught by the hindrance, you will let
go of it more quickly and not be caught for too long a time.
However,  if  you  are  totally  caught  by  sleepiness,  it  may  take
some  time  to  overcome  this  hindrance  because  this  is  the  last
thing mind wants to do! Thus, mind may ‘ping pong’ back and
forth from the meditation object back to the sleepiness. The more
light  and  joyful  interest  towards  how  mind’s  attention  works,
the more quickly you will let go of the hindrance and begin to
meditate again.
Similarly,  when  pain  arises,  you  do  not  direct  mind’s  attention
into  the  pain.  You  can  see  how  mind  has  resistance  to  that
sensation only when your attention is pulled to the pain. If you
start to think about the pain, it will get bigger and more intense.
So, first you let go of the thinking mind, which verbalizes about
the distraction (pain, hindrance, heavy emotion etc.).
Next, relax mind and release the tight mental knot around the
sensation, relax the tightness in the head, calm mind, and then
smile  before  redirecting  mind’s  attention  back  to  the  object  of
meditation. This is done continually until the pain doesn’t pull
mind’s attention to it again.
This  is  decidedly  different  from  some  other  meditation


instructions where meditators are told to put their attention into
the middle of the pain and note it as ‘pain... pain... pain’. All the
while, they are trying to see it’s true nature and watch it change.
But  pain,  by  nature,  is  repulsive  and  thus,  the  meditators  have
the tendency to tighten and harden mind so that they are able to
continue watching the pain. This hardening of mind’s attention
is  never  noted  by  the  meditators.  This  is  never  seen  clearly
when  it  arises.  The  meditators  will  eventually  develop  enough
concentration (fixed attention) to be able to overcome the pain.
However, this is achieved by suppressing and tightening mind.
You can clearly observe that the spiritual base of investigation of
your experience (Dhamma-vicaya) is to purify mind by allowing
everything  that  happens  in  the  present  moment  to  be  there
without  trying  to  fight  it,  control  it,  or  even  disturb  it  in  any
way. Loving-acceptance and patience (as defined in the English
dictionary  means  ‘non-aversion’)  of  the  present  moment.  This
is  the  way  to  attain  Nibbàna.  It  is  not  attained  by  absorption
concentration, tightness, or suppression.

The Breath of Love - The 6R

The Breath of Love
Author
Most Venerable Bhante Vimalaramsi Mahàthera



The 6R’s

The  6R’s  are  steps  which  evolve  into  one  fluid  motion
becoming  a  new  wholesome  habitual  tendency  that
relieves  any  dis-ease  in  mind  and  body.  This  cycle  begins
when MINDFULNESS remembers the 6R’s which are:  
RECOGNIZE
RELEASE
RELAX
RE-SMILE
RETURN
REPEAT
Development of mindfulness (your observation power) observes
each  step  of  the  practice  cycle.  Once  you  understand  what
the  purpose  of  mindfulness  is,  keeping  it  going  all  the  time  is
no  longer  a  problem,  and  this  makes  the  meditation  easier  to
understand, plus, it is much more fun to practice. It becomes a
part of happy living and this brings up a smile. Remembering
the 6r’s leads you to having a wholesome up-lifted mind.
This  remembering  by  mindfulness  is  very  important.  Before
practicing  the  6R’s  you  have  to  REMEMBER  to  start  the  cycle!
That’s the trick! You have to remember to gas-up the engine, so
it can run smoothly!
Then we begin to:
RECOGNIZE: Mindfulness remembers how you can recognize
and observe any movement of mind’s attention from one thing
to  another.  This  observation  notices  any  movement  of  mind’s
attention away from an object of meditation, such as the breath,
sending out Mettà or, doing a task in daily life. You will notice a


slight  tightness  or tension sensation as mind’s attention barely
begins to move toward any arising phenomena.

Pleasant or painful feeling can occur at any one of the six sense
doors. Any sight, sound, odor, taste, touch, or thought can cause
this  pulling  sensation  to  begin.  With  careful  non-judgmental
observation,  the  meditator  will  notice  a  slight  tightening
sensation. RECOGNIZING early movement is vital to successful
meditation. You then continue on to;
RELEASE: When a feeling or thought arises, you RELEASE it, let
it be there without giving anymore attention to it. The content of
the distraction is not important at all, but the mechanics of HOW
it arose are important! Just let go of any tightness around it; let
it be there without placing attention on it. Without attention, the
tightness passes away. Mindfulness then reminds you to;
RELAX: After releasing the feeling or sensation, and allowing it
to be there without trying to control it, there is a subtle, barely
noticeable  tension  within  mind/body.  This  is  why  the  RELAX
step  [“TRANQUILIZATION”  step  as  stated  in  the  suttas]  is
being pointed out by the Buddha in his meditation instructions.
PLEASE, DON’T SKIP THIS STEP! It would be like not putting
oil in a car so the motor can run smoothly. The important Pàli
word  here  is  ‘pas’sambaya’.  This  word  specifically  means  ‘to
tranquilize’  and  appears  as  ‘an  action  verb  to  be  performed’
as described in the suttas and is not ‘a general kind of relaxing
that is included within other release steps found in other kinds
of  meditation.  This  point  is  sometimes  mis-understood  in
translation which then changes the end result!
Without  performing  this  step  of  relaxation  every  time  in  the
cycle,  the  meditator  will  not  experience  a  close-up  view  of  the
ceasing (cessation) of the tension caused by craving or the feeling


of relief as the tightness is relaxed. Note that craving always first
manifests as a tightness or tension in both one’s mind and body.
You  have  a  momentary  opportunity  to  see  and  experience  the
true  nature  and  relief  of  cessation  of  tightness  and  suffering
while performing the RELEASE/RELAX steps.
Mindfulness moves on by remembering to;
RE-SMILE: If you have listened to the Dhamma talks at www.
dhammasukha.org  you  might  remember  hearing  about  how
smiling  is  an  important  aspect  for  the  meditation.  Learning  to
smile  with  mind  and  raising  slightly  the  corners  of  the  mouth
helps  mind  to  be  observant,  alert  and  agile.  Getting  serious,
tensing up or frowning causes mind to become heavy and your
mindfulness  becomes  dull  and  slow.  Your  insights  become
more difficult to see, thus slowing down your understanding of
Dhamma.
  Imagine  for  a  moment,  the  Bodhisatta  resting  under  the  rose
apple tree as a young boy. He was not serious and tense when he
attained a pleasant abiding [Jhàna] and had deep insights with a
light mind. Want to see clearly? It’s easy!
Just lighten up, have fun exploring and smile! Smiling leads us
to a happier more interesting practice. If the meditator forgets to
Release/Relax, rather than punishing or criticizing yourself, be
kind, re-smile and start again. Keeping up your humor, sense of
fun exploration and recycling is important.
After re-smiling, mindfulness recalls the next step.
RETURN or RE-DIRECT: Gently re-direct mind’s attention back
to  the  object  of  meditation  (that  is  the  breath  and  relaxing,  or
Mettà and relaxing) continuing with a gentle collected mind and


use that object as a “home base”. In daily life, having been pulled
off task, this is where you return your attention back to releasing,
relaxing, and re-smiling into the task.
Sometimes people say this practice cycle is simpler than expected!
In  history,  simple  things  can  become  a  mystery  through  small
changes and omissions! Doing this practice develops better focus
on  daily  tasks  with  less  tension  and  tightness.  Mind  becomes
more naturally balanced and happy. You become more efficient
at whatever you do in life and, actually, you have more fun doing
all of the things that used to be a drudgery. Nearing the end of
the cycle.
Mindfulness helps with the final remembering to;
REPEAT:  REPEAT  your  meditation  on  your  object  and  keep  it
going  as  long  as  you  can  and  then  repeat  this  entire  practice
cycle  as  needed  to  attain  the  results  the  Buddha  said  could  be
reached in this lifetime!
Repeating  the  “6R’s  cycle”  over  and  over  again  will  eventually
replace old habitual suffering as we see clearly for ourselves what
suffering actually is; notice the cause of it and how we become
involved  with  the  tension  and  tightness  of  it;  experience  how
to reach a cessation of that suffering by releasing and relaxing;
and  discover  how  we  can  exercise  the  direct  path  to  that  same
cessation  of  suffering.  We  achieve  this  cessation  each  time  we
Release an arising feeling, Relax and Resmile. Notice the Relief!
In  summary,  Mindfulness  (Sati)  is  very  relevant  to  Buddhist
meditation and daily life. Sharpening your skill of mindfulness
is  the  key  to  simple  and  smooth  meditation.  The  process
of  remembering  keeps  the  six  steps  of  the  practice  moving.
Practicing  this  meditation  as  close  to  the  instructions  (found


in  the  suttas)  as  possible  will  lighten  life’s  experience.  A  very
similar practice was taught to people in the time of the Buddha.
It was taught as Right Effort. Within the 6R’s we have added a
couple more steps to make things a little easier to understand.
The remarkable results of doing the meditation in this way are
“immediately effective” for anyone who diligently and ardently
embraces these instructions. When you have an attachment arise
this practice will eventually dissolve the hindrance, but it does
take persistent use of the 6R’s to have this happen.
  When  you  practice  in  this  way,  because  it  is  found  to  be  so
relevant  in  daily  life,  it  changes  your  perspective  and  leads
you  to  a  more  successful,  happy,  and  peaceful  experience.  As
mindfulness  develops,  knowledge  and  wisdom  grow  naturally
as  you  see  HOW  things  work  by  witnessing  the  impersonal
process of Dependent Origination.
This  leads  to  a  form  of  happiness  the  Buddha  called
“Contentment”.  Contentment  is  the  by-product  of  living  the
Buddhist practice. This meditation leads to balance, equanimity,
and  the  dissolution  of  fear  and  other  dis-ease.  With  less  fear
and  dread  you  find  new  confidence.  Then  Loving-kindness,
Compassion, Joy, and Equanimity can grow in our lives.
Your degree of success is directly proportional to how well you
understand mindfulness, follow the precise instructions, and use
the  6R’s  in  both  your  sitting  practice  and  daily  life.  This  is  the
way to the end of suffering. It’s interesting and fun to practice
this  way  and  certainly  it  helps  you  smile  while  changing  the
world around you in a positive way.
When you are practicing “Tranquil Wisdom Insight Meditation”
(TWIM), you do not suppress anything. Suppression means we


would  push  down  or  push  away  or  not  allow  certain  types  of
experience. This would temporarily stop hindrances from arising.
Instead, when a hindrance arises, you must work to open your
mind  by  seeing  clearly  anicca  (impermanence,  it  wasn’t  there
and now it is), dukkha (suffering or un-satisfactoriness, you see
that  when  these  distractions  arise  they  are  painful),  and  anattà
(not taking it personally, seeing the hindrances in the true way as
being an impersonal process that you have no control over and
not taking these hindrances as “I am that”).
You  then  let  go  of  this  obstruction,  relax  the  tightness  in  the
head, calm mind and finally, redirect your craving-free attention
back to the practice of ‘Mindfulness of Breathing’.
As  a  result,  you  begin  to  see  clearly  how  mind  works  and  this
leads  to  the  development  of  wisdom.  Instead  of  identifying
with  them,  when  you  allow  them  and  relax,  these  hindrances,
will naturally fade away. Mind becomes more clear and bright.
Every time you let go of the ego attachment of “I am that”, mind
naturally becomes more expanded, alert, and mindful.
Thus,  one  of  the  main  reasons  for  this  book  is  to  show  that
whenever  you  suppress  anything,  you  are  not  purifying
mind,  or  experiencing  things  as  they  truly  are.  At  the  time  of
suppression, you are pushing away or not allowing part of your
experience. Thus, mind is contracted and pulls the tension even
tighter  instead  of  expanding  and  opening.  As  a  result,  this  is
not  purifying  mind  of  ignorance  and  craving.  You  are  actually
stopping the purification of mind!
It  is  impossible  to  experience  the  unconditioned  state  of  the
supramundane Nibbàna when one does not let go of everything
that  arises,  and  in  that  way,  purify  mind  of  the  ego  belief  of  “I
am that”.


The  Buddha  never  taught  suppression  of  any  experience  nor
did he teach a meditation that causes mind to fix on or become
absorbed  into  the  meditation  object.  Remember,  he  rejected
every form of ‘concentration meditation’ as not being the correct
way.  Actually,  any  kinds  of  pain,  emotional  upset,  physical
discomfort, and even death must be accepted with equanimity,
full awareness or strong attention without identifying with these
states or taking pain personally.
Real  personality  change  occurs  when  you  open  and  expand
your mind and let go of any kinds of hindrances, pain, suffering
and tension even in your daily lives. This means that you open
and expand your awareness so that you can observe everything
with  a  silent  mind  free  from  tightness  and  all  ego-attachment.
You gradually lead a happy and calm life without a lot of mind
chatter, especially during your daily activities.
When you practice “concentration meditation”, you will feel very
comfortable and happy while in the deep meditation. But, when
you  get  out  of  these  exalted  stages,  your  personality  remains
the same. Old anger, fears, or anxiety remain. This means when
the hindrances attack you, you do not recognize them and open
your mind and allow the hindrance to be there without taking it
personally. Thus, you contract your mind and become even more
attached!  You  might  even  become  prideful  and  critical!  This  is
because  whenever  a  hindrance  arises  during  the  meditation,
you let it go and immediately go back to the object of meditation
again.  You  do  this  without  calming  and  relaxing  the  tightness
caused by the distraction. While in meditation, your mind tends
to  close  or  contract  and  tighten  around  that  experience  until
mind becomes more deeply ‘concentrated’.
As a result, although this suppresses the hindrance, you have not
completely let go of the ego-attachment to that distraction. Your


mind is also tight and tense because you are not seeing clearly.
You are not opening and allowing, but, instead you are closing
and fighting with that distraction.
This explains why nowadays meditators complain that they have
huge amounts of tension in their head. Actually, if you truly let
go  of  any  distraction,  there  will  not  ever  be  any  tension  in  the
head.  It  is  as  a  result  of  this  suppression  that  there  is  no  real
purifying of mind, and thus, personality change does not occur.
Talking About Words
Now, we are almost ready for the ânàpànasati Sutta. But, before
we  go  into  that,  let’s  look  at  some  words  which  have  been
simplified so that their meanings in the texts become clearer.
For instance,
The word ‘rapture’ is replaced by ‘joy’.
The word ‘pleasure’ is changed to ‘happiness’.
The word ‘concentration’ is replaced by ‘stillness’, ‘collectedness’,
or ‘unified mind’.
The  phrase  ‘applied  and  sustained  thoughts’  is  replaced  by
‘thinking  and  examining  thoughts’  which  seems  to  be  more
immediately understood.
The  word  ‘contemplation’  has,  in  most  cases  been  changed  to
‘observation’.
When  you  practice  according  to  the  Buddha’s  instructions,  as
described  here,  afterwards,  you  will  be  able  to  confirm  your
experiences by reading the suttas. As a result, there will arise a
better understanding of these profound texts.
One  last  note:  In  these  few  opening  chapters,  the  author  has
touched  on  some  controversial  views  about  the  practices  of


absorption  or  fixed  concentration  (appanà  samàdhi),  access
concentration  (upacàra  samàdhi)  and  momentary  concentration
(khanika  samàdhi).  Thus,  the  author  would  appreciate  it  very
much if the reader finds any mistake; they should indicate the
suttas which mentioned these various concentration practices by
e-mailing the Author.
When  you  practice  “Tranquil  Wisdom  Insight  Meditation”
(TWIM) there is only opening, expanding of mind, and allowing;
then relaxing the tightness caused by the hindrance or distraction,
before going back to the object of meditation again. This opening
and  allowing  helps  you  to  be  more  aware  of  the  things  which
cause  pain  and  suffering  so  that  you  can  open  up  and  expand
even  further.  With  this  kind  of  awareness,  there  is  personality
change and only then can you fulfill the Buddha’s admonition
of “We are the Happy Ones”.

The Breath of Love - TWIM

The Breath of Love
Author
Most Venerable Bhante Vimalaramsi Mahàthera



Prelude to Tranquil Wisdom Insight Meditation (TWIM)

Before  you  start  practicing  the  meditation,  it  is  very  important
to build a strong foundation of morality (sãla). If you don’t even
practice the five precepts, you will lose interest and finally stop
meditating, because you think that the technique is incorrect.
Actually the Buddha’s technique works very well. This is just a
case of not having the complete practice and not doing it in the
correct way. Keeping the precepts is essential to the development
and purity of mind. If you break any of these precepts, you will
experience a lot of restlessness, remorse, and anxiety due to your
guilty  feelings.  This  causes  mind  to  be  tight  and  clouds  your
thoughts.
These  precepts  are  absolutely  necessary  for  any  spiritual
attainments.  They  support  your  general  mindfulness  and
awareness to help you to have a peaceful mind that is clear from
any  remorse  due  to  wrong  doing.  A  peaceful  calm  mind  is  a
mind that is tension-free and clear.


Thus,  it  is  a  very  good  idea  to  take  these  precepts  every  day,
not  as  some  form  of  rite  or  ritual,  but  as  a  reminder  for  your
practice. Taking the precepts every day helps to keep your mind,
speech, and actions uplifted. There are people who recite these
precepts in the Pàli language. However, it can turn into an empty
exercise if you don’t completely understand Pàli. For the earnest
meditator  it  is  best  to  recite  these  precepts  daily  in  a  language
that  you  understand  so  that  the  meanings  are  clear  without  a
doubt.
These precepts are:
1.]  I  undertake  to  keep  the  precept  to  abstain  from  killing  or
harming living beings on purpose.
This precept includes non-killing of beings like ants, mosquitoes,
wasps or cockroaches, etc.
2.] I undertake to keep the precept to abstain from taking what
is not given.
This covers any forms of stealing which even includes taking a
pencil  from  work  without  permission  or  using  equipment  like
copy machines for personal use.
3.] I undertake to keep the precept to abstain from wrong sexual
activity.
Basically, it means not having any sexual activity with another
person’s partner, or having sexual activity with someone that is
still under the care of a family member. It also means that one
must follow the sexual laws of the land.
Any sexual activity that causes undue pain to another being will


cause one to have remorse and guilty feelings to arise.
4.] I undertake to keep the precept to abstain from telling lies,
using  harsh  speech,  slandering  others,  and  speaking  gossip  or
nonsense talk.
This  means  abstinence  from  any  type  of  speech  which  is  not
true or helpful to others. It also includes abstinence from telling
white lies.
5.] I undertake to keep the precept to abstain from taking drugs
and alcohol which dulls mind.
Many people think that drinking one glass of beer or one social
glass of wine or smoking a joint of marijuana would not affect
their  mind.  But  this  is  not  true!  If  you  are  seriously  practicing
meditation, you become very sensitive and will notice the effects
of even taking something as harmless as aspirin. It can dull your
mind  for  a  whole  day.  How  much  more  will  this  happen  with
alcohol and other drugs?
 However, when you are sick and the doctor says that you must
take a certain drug as medicine, then please take the medicine.
This precept refers to taking drugs or alcohol in order to relax
and escape from the stress of the day.
As  soon  as  you  realize  that  you  have  broken  a  precept,  you
should first forgive yourself and acknowledge that you are not
perfect. This helps you to free your mind a little. You then retake
the precepts as soon as possible and make a determination not
to break the precepts again.
Taking  the  precepts  again  will  help  to  re-purify  mind.  Over
a  period  of  time,  you  will  become  more  aware  and  naturally


abstain from breaking them because you realize these harmful
effects.
Please practice only one meditation technique at a time because
mind will become confused if you try to mix and match various
meditations. Mixing and matching only stops your progress.
How do you find a good teacher? The best way is to pick only one
teacher who truly understands the meditation and can explain
things clearly and precisely.
The  way  to  select  a  good  teacher  is  by  seeing  if  the  teacher  is
teaching  you  about  how  to  know  and  recognize  the  links  of
Dependent  Origination  and  the  Four  Noble  Truths.  Then,
stay with that teacher for a period of time and see for yourself
whether your mind becomes more happy and peaceful; not just
while meditating, but in daily life as well. This is ultimately the
best way to choose.
Does your awareness of mind states become clearer and easier to
recognize, can you let go of them, relax and smile during your
daily activities as well as during the sitting practice? If not, check
with  the  teacher  and  the  suttas  to  see  if  what  is  being  taught
agrees with them. As your practice deepens and the meditation
becomes better, the suttas get easier to understand. This always
happens when the teacher is using the suttas as their guide.
The Hindrances
Lastly,  it  is  very  important  for  the  meditator  to  recognize
whenever the five hindrances” arise. They are:
1.Lust or greed, 
2.Hatred or aversion, 
3.Sloth and torpor or sleepiness and dullness,


4.Restlessness or remorse, anxiety or scatteredness, and 
5.Doubt.
A hindrance is an obstacle or a distraction because it completely
blocks  your  progress  during  sitting  meditation  or  it  can  make
things  difficult  during  your  daily  activities.  It  keeps  you  from
seeing things clearly in the present moment. It also causes you
to take an impersonal process, personally.
Whenever  these  hindrances  arise,  you  identify  with  them  very
strongly  and  you  take  them  personally  i.e.,  “I  am  sleepy,  I  am
restless,  I  like  and  I  want,  I  dislike  and  I  hate,  I  have  doubt”.
These  hindrances  completely  cloud  your  mind  and  stop  you
from  seeing  clearly  whatever  happens  in  the  present  moment
due to the ego involvement of “I am that”.
When  you  are  practicing  “fixed  absorption  concentration’  you
let go of any distraction and then redirect your mind’s attention
back to the meditation object. On the other hand, while you are
practicing “Tranquil Wisdom Insight Meditation” (TWIM), you
let go of the distraction, and this part is exactly the same as the
‘fixed absorption concentration’, but then, you relax the tightness
in  the  head  and  feel  mind  become  open,  expanded  and  calm.
Now, you smile. Only then do you redirect mind’s attention back
to the object of meditation.
Over the past fifteen years, the author has developed a training
aid  to  assist  the  student  to  practice  this  technique  which  is  in
line with the suttas and which improves mindfulness very much.
This is called “The 6R’s”. The small difference of relaxing mind
and feeling it open and calm, changes the whole meditation from
a  ‘fixed  absorption  concentration’  to  a  more  flowing,  tranquil
kind  of  awareness,  that  doesn’t  go  as  deep  as  the  absorption
types of meditation. As a result, the meditator becomes more in


tune with the teachings in the suttas.
In Buddhist meditation, have the questions ever come up, “What
is  mindfulness  (Sati),  really?”…  “Exactly  how  do  you  practice
being  mindful?”…  “Can  mindfulness  really  lighten  up  my
perspective and help bring joy, happiness and balance into every
aspect of my life?”
If mindfulness is observing how mind’s attention moves when
a distraction arises and pulls you away from whatever you are
doing, then by doing this practice, life becomes easier and more
stress free, doesn’t it seem like a useful tool to develop?
To clearly understand this connection, you first have to start with
a  precise  definition  of  Meditation  (Bhàvanà)  and  Mindfulness
(Sati). Seeing this will help you gain a new harmonious perspective
(Samma  Ditthi)  of  exactly  how  mind  works  and  teaches  the
meditator ‘HOW’ to change old painful habits that cause great
suffering into a new way of having a contented, balanced mind.
This is the point of all of the Buddha’s teachings, isn’t it?
Meditation  (Bhàvanà)  is  “observing  how  mind’s  attention
moves moment-to-moment in order to see precisely ‘HOW’ the
impersonal  (anattà)  process  of  Dependent  Origination  (Pañicca-
Samuppàda) occurs and to completely understand the Four Noble
Truths.”
Seeing and understanding ‘HOW’ mind’s attention moves from
one  thing  to  another  and  understanding  that  everything  is
an  impersonal  process  is  what  the  main  thrust  is  in  Buddhist
Meditation! This is why Dependent Origination is so important
to  see  and  understand.  It  helps  us  to  develop  an  impersonal
perspective with all arising phenomena and leads you to see for
yourself the true nature of all existence.


Why  is  this  important?  Because  concerning  awakening,  it  has
been said by the Blessed One: in Majjhima Nikàya Sutta 28, section
28,  “One  who  sees  Dependent  Origination  sees  the  Dhamma;
one who sees the Dhamma sees Dependent Origination.”
What is Mindfulness?
Mindfulness  (Sati)  is  “remembering  to  observe  HOW  mind’s
attention moves moment-to-moment and remembering what to
do with any arising phenomena!” Successful meditation needs a
highly developed skill of Mindfulness. The 6R’s training taught
at  Dhamma  Sukha  Meditation  Center  is  a  reclaimed  ancient
guidance system which develops this skill.
The first R is to RECOGNIZE but before we do it, the meditator
must  remember  to  use  their  observation  power  [mindfulness]
for the meditation cycle to start running. Mindfulness is the fuel.
It’s just like gas for an engine. Without Mindfulness, everything
stops!
Being persistent with this practice will relieve suffering of all kinds.
To  begin  this  cycle  “smoothly”  you  must  start  the  engine  and
have lots of gas (mindfulness) in the tank!
Meditation  (Bhàvanà)  helps  you  to  let  go  of  such  difficult
delusional  states  in  life  as  fear,  anger,  tension,  stress,  anxiety,
depression,  sadness,  sorrow,  fatigue,  condemnation,  feelings  of
helplessness  or  whatever  the  “catch  (attachment)  of  the  day”
happens to be. (Delusional means here, taking things that arise
personally  and  identifying  with  them  to  be  “I”,  “Me”,  “Mine”
or “atta” in Pàli). These states result in suffering that we cause
ourselves. This suffering comes from a lack of understanding in
how things actually occur.